About Me

Who Am I?

I am Sundria! I am a breath of fresh air! I am positive energy overflowing with the love of God!

My interest in this profession was sparked in 2016 when I viewed a video posted on social media. Two years prior, in 2014, I became a widow and experienced, in that same year, the deaths of my mother, stepfather, and family pet. I realized those closest to me, who I relied on for support and encouragement, were gone. Though at times I was around others socially, I felt alone and isolated. From my loss was birthed the desire for missing human intimacy. A desire I would never have known if it hadn't been for so many transitions of my loved ones within such a short timeframe. I was positioned by God to recognize disconnect in others and given a powerful purpose to restore healthy intimate human connection in the lives of others. This doesn't mean that something has to be missing for YOU to see a Professional Cuddlist. It's perfectly fine for you to seek healthy touch as a form of self care because you value your health and well being. My strength as a Cuddlist comes from the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. My blessing as a retired therapist is that I have the learning, applied practice, and scientific knowledge to experience present moments, actively listen, sit in silence, recognize deficiencies, honor confidentiality, and value healthy human exchange. What's awesome about being a Cuddlist is that my role is not to fix...but just to BE. My goal is to share a moment in life with another that is meaningful to them leaving them being sincerely accepted, feeling connected, and being validated by safe, healthy, consensual, non-sexual, human touch.

Personal & Professional

Personally, I am a seminary student and active volunteer within my residential and spiritual communities.

Professionally, I am a Professional Cuddlist and an Associate Trainer of Cuddlist! I am an Essential Oil Educator, Event Facilitator, Gospel Singer/Songwriter, Encouragement Speaker, Private Property Investor, Non-Profit Board Member, and Retired Christ-Centered Psychotherapist.

A Few Affiliations, Trainings & Degrees

* CPR/First Aid BLS Provider Certification

* Crisis Response Prevention & Intervention Specialist

* Cuddlist Certified Practitioner, Trusted Touch Protocol's™

* Foundations of Facilitation

* World Institute of Nurturing Communication (WINC)

* International Association of Infant Massage (IAIM)

* Certified Infant Massage Instructor (CIMI)

* Certified International Instructor Trainer (CIIT)

* California Association of Marriage & Family Therapists (CAMFT)

* Masters Coursework in Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT) & Christian Counseling (MACC)

Cuddling Service

What Is A Professional Cuddlist?

A trained and skilled professional who holds a confidential safe space for their consenting adult client to experience healthy non-sexual human touch. 

Who Hires A Professional Cuddlist?

Just about anyone! I am open and non-discriminative so my clients identify as he, she, and they. My clients are a rainbow of hues and come from many walks of life. My clients are survivors of physical violations or those who live with disabilities seen and unseen. My clients are those outside of or within their own romantic relationships. My clients range from C.E.O.’s, Pastors, professional athletes, and law enforcement officials to ex-military, widowed, homemakers, and college students. My clients look like you! My client is YOU!

Is It Confidential?

I personally screen my emails, receive calls, handle scheduling & follow-ups, and maintain my own records. From the moment you contact me until you exit my presence only you and I are aware of our interactions. You have the right to confidentiality! Only those YOU share your experience with will know of our sessions.

What Happens In A Session?

Each session involves a greeting, orientation to space, review of conduct code to establish boundaries, and transition into a safe non-sexual human touch experience tailored specifically for you in the present moment. Each session ends with a ten minute acknowledgement prior to session closure. Know that comfortability is important and won't be overlooked. If at any time you, the client, or I, the Cuddlist, is uncomfortable for any reason we may stop the session.

There are no two sessions alike. I have had clients range from being satisfied with little to no touch enjoying the quiet sharing of presence in the moment to clients engaged in full embrace where they simply fell into deep sleep being totally relaxed. I encourage YOU to decide in the moment how the session will go and as long as we both consent to safe non-sexual touch experiences...it's all good!

Be aware that there is a euphoric feeling that can linger after a session ends. The body is on what is considered a "natural high" due to the nurturing you have received and a visceral sense of connection you will experience from cuddling. Your body is in an altered state with your blood chemistry producing a powerful hormone called oxytocin which acts as a neurotransmitter in the brain. In our follow-up call I will check in with you to ensure you are not experiencing an "intimacy hangover." This should not be alarming but usually occurs when a client has an emotional come down from an oxytocin high.

Where Is The Session Located?

There are two types of sessions each are paid in full at the time the session is scheduled:

1. In Calls. You come to a private address I provide once the session is scheduled. You are asked to be on time and free of substances and strong smells. The cuddle environment is a smoke free and pet free zone. There is a private changing area where You can place on cuddle attire once you arrive. 

2. Out Calls. I travel to a predetermined location to meet You. There are additional travel expenses associated with this type of session which we confirm prior to scheduling the session.

What Is Proper Cuddling Attire?

Proper professional cuddling attire are pajamas or light work out clothing (e.i. soft cotton jersey like material or yoga attire). Professional cuddling attire must be a minimum of a tank top and long shorts. Undergarments alone cannot be worn in lieu of clothing items (i.e. underwear are not shorts and a sports bra is not a tank top). Think COMFY not sexy. Sensual lingerie is not proper professional cuddling attire. 

At no time is touching under clothing or saliva exchange permitted.

Cuddlist Fees

fees are paid in full when session is scheduled or party registration is made. you are permitted to reschedule once without forfeiting the fee. to be considered a consenting adult you must be a minimum of 18 years of age to be accepted as a client or a party attendee. If you are presently in talk therapy have your therapist write a referral and receive all your 60 minute sessions for the "first session" fee. Active duty military, veterans, retirees, and dependents, with valid military id's, receive all 60 minute sessions for the "first session" fee. College students, with valid student id's, also receive all 60 minute sessions for the "first session" fee.


Wanna Know? Here Goes!

Let's CUDDLE Your Cares Away................ AND Let's OIL Your Ills Away...

YOU are the only deterrent between You and I.

I love hearing from YOU (my clients & perspective clients).

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Cuddle Me Pro

P.O. Box 587 Fairfield, CA 94533-0587


Monday - Friday: By appointment

Saturday: By appointment

Sunday: By appointment

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If you would like to refer a friend or loved one for a Cuddle Session just click the link below and follow the prompts submitting the name of your recipient in the "note" section. Advise them that when they schedule their session to mention their gift certificate. Thank you for your purchase!                                                                                                                                               Many are referred by medical providers but their insurance does not cover the service fee. Your contributions will enable those who cannot afford services to have their need met. Please click the link below and follow the prompts placing the word "contribution" in the "note" section. Thank you in advance for helping another!                                                                                                                                                To make a payment for an individual session or to register for a Fairfield Cuddle Party click the link below and in the "note" section place your payment type.

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